Gender and Sexual Alignments: Equality, Inclusion and Belonging
Overview
The aim of this writing is to examine the various gender identities and
sexual alignments from the perspectives of equality, inclusion and belonging. How
is the socio-political, religious and economic spaces view other
non-traditional gender identities in gender equality discourses? Do the current
environment guarantee all genders and sexual alignments the emotional,
personal, and social feelings that promote and encourage sense of inclusion and
belonging?
To answer the above questions, the following outline will be followed:
What is gender identity?
The word gender has its root in the Latin word, genus. Both the
word ‘gender’ and ‘genus’ mean ‘kind,’ ‘sort,’ or ‘type.’ The word gender comes
from the middle English ‘gendre’ which was borrowed from the Anglo-Norman
and Middle French ‘gendre.’
The Latin ‘genus’ is linked with procreation, that is the idea of
increasing and multiplication of humankind. It is also linked with familial
groups, which expresses the idea of many categories or classes. So, the word
gender, does not really restrict its meaning to only male and female. It
encompasses a variety of social, cultural, and biological distinctions which captivates
the mind of the young as well as the old.
It is within reason to describe traditional
gender identity (male/female) and sexual alignment (heterosexual) as conventional
footprint traits. But gender identity and sexual alignment have evolved and
people’s freedom to choose and experience the sexual attraction and romantic
alignment in a non-traditional way create new layers on top of male and female
genders and yield other forms of gender identities and sexual alignments.
Today’s gender identities and sexual alignments are like fingerprints; everyone
can identify their gender according to the way they form romantic relationships,
understand their bodies, and enabled by the positive social, cultural, and political
milieu.
Types of gender identities
Some of the commonly mentioned gender identities include:
Cisgender
A cisgender is someone whose gender
identity aligns with their sex assigned at birth. The term 'cis' comes from the
Latin meaning "on the side of." This is now adopted to separate
this group from transgender identity.
The acute angle formations of the male and female seem unequal. Traditionally, male and female genders complement each other. |
Transgender
A transgender is someone whose
gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth.
The acute angle formation above with a laughing and crying human head portrays multiple ways to express one's identity independent from the man and woman traits. |
Non-binary
This is a general term that groups
together gender identities outside the traditional male and female binary.
People who identify themselves as non-binary may experience a gender identity
that is not exclusively male or female.
Non-binary is not synonymous with
intersex and cannot be construed as a correlation with sexual alignment. Some
of the non-binary identities include:
Genderfluid - This refers to a non-fixed gender identity that
fluctuates over time depending on the situation. This change can occur because
of gender identity or gender expression.
Agender - Agender describes an
individual with no gender identity. The prefix 'a-' to 'gender' shows lack of
gender and an agender person may neither identify as male nor female.
Genderqueer - This describes a
shifting or changing non-binary gender identity. People who identify as
genderqueer do not completely fit into the binary categories of man and woman.
Androgynous - This describes
individuals with both masculine and feminine characteristics. Androgynous can
apply to various contexts:
- Biological sex - regarding humans, androgynous
describes the conditions were both male and female characteristics present
in an individual, such as hermaphrodites or intersex people.
- Gender identity and expression - Individuals can
identify as non-binary or transgender to distinguish themselves from
aligning with the traditional male or female norms.
Bigender - This is a type of self-identifier. It is a gender
identity where the person expresses two distinct genders, which can be a
combination of binary identities like 'man' and 'woman.' Some bigender people
may feel both genders at the same time; others may alternate between them.
This shows the flexibility there is for non-binary people and long strides of confidence. |
Third Gender
This is a concept that recognizes
persons whose gender identity do not completely fit into the binary categories
of male and female. It thrives in societies that accept three or more genders,
such as:
- Native Hawaiians and Tahitians recognize mahu (as a
form of gender threshold), that is a middle stage between manhood and
womanhood.
- The Dine Native Americans recognize four genders:
- feminine woman
- masculine woman
- feminine man
- masculine man.
Gender identities for entertainment and Self-expressions
Gender definitions are couched in entertainment to either present human
comedy through glitz and style, such as drag or cross-dressing, or instigate a business
case for gender industry.
Cross-dressing, for example is when a man wears articles of clothing
traditionally associated with female counterparts and vice versa. Drag is a
form of performance art to entertain and cause laughter through an exaggerated
expressions of masculinity and femininity. These forms of gender expressions
could satirically be used to demonstrate stereotypes or parodying or lampooning
some societal anomalies.
Cross-dressers - These are individuals who wear some clothing
traditionally associated with a different gender either to disguise, comfort,
entertain or for self-expression. It can be a way to express different aspects
of an individual's identity or challenge the social norms about clothing and
gender.
Drag - This is a form of performance art to entertain with
exaggerated expressions of masculinity, femininity, or other gender identities.
- Drag King is usually a female performer who adorns
themselves in men's clothing to create a masculine persona and exhibits
various masculine traits.
- Drag Queen is usually a male performer who wears
elaborate and attractive costumes, wigs, makeup imitating feminine
persona.
Sexual Alignment
This refers to an instinctive
personal pattern of romantic, emotional, and sexual attraction and disposition
to another individual.
Types of Sexual alignments
There are quite some main sexual alignment
categories:
- Heterosexuality - This describes an attraction to the opposite sex or gender.
- Homosexuality - This describes an attraction to same sex or gender.
- Bisexuality - This describes the attraction to both sexes or more than one gender.
- Asexuality - This describes a condition where an individual expresses no sexual attraction to others.
- Pansexuality - This describes the romantic, sexual, or emotional attraction toward people of all genders, not minding their gender identity or sexual orientation. Sometimes, pansexual people describe themselves as gender-blind, that is, gender or sex is not a determinant about who they are attracted to.
- Polysexuality - This describes a situation where someone feels attracted to many, but not all genders.
Everyone biologically acquires either
the male or female gender identity as an inherent trait from birth, but the
changes and chances in biological development, personal and conscious feelings,
emotional and physical attractions, legal and social norms lend credence to other
layers of gender identities. This autonomy is exclusively different from the
traditional male and female characteristics.
Over the centuries, male and female
gender identities have been carefully crafted into the mainstream discourses and
latterly, the two genders are competing for equal employment, pay, marriage, military
service, political or religious positions. The marginal recognitions of other
gender identities and individuals with sexual alignments different from the
traditional heterosexuality are reasons for the increase of different minority
social groups agitating for equality and inclusion.
Yes, to equality: No to equality!
On paper, through legislations,
conventions, and declarations, there seems to be an understanding that gender
equality is normative. Article 1 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights
(UDHR) states that: “All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and
rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one
another in a spirit of brotherhood.”
The above article says yes to
equality in dignity and rights. This makes the traditional male and female gender
identifiers to be equal with a non-binary and transgender identifiers. In like
manner, a homosexual, bisexual and asexual are considered equal in dignity and
rights with a heterosexual, pansexual and polysexual.
Different nations have adopted the
UDHR and developed their national laws on human rights and dignity. Despite
these laws, there are still discriminations in gender, not limited to only male
and female gender identities, but specifically to non-binary and transgender people.
For example, how many female heads of states has the world known? How many transgenders,
non-binary or gay individuals have climbed to the top of becoming a head of
states? How many women in Islam can lead mixed gender congregations in prayers?
How many women are priests in the Catholic Church? How many countries have
bathroom laws that affect access to public toilets based on gender or
transgender identity? Many times, there are microaggressions in the actions of
some people that are prejudicial to transgender or gay people.
Inclusion and Belonging
These two terms seem related in
meaning but they differ in some ways. Inclusion is the ability to include
everyone, regardless of who they are or their background and make them feel
welcome and participate in the affairs of the community or organization. Inclusion
is about creating an enabling environment where everyone is understood,
appreciated and valued.
On the other hand, belonging is feeling
secure and supported within a group, community or organization. Belonging is
about feeling like you truly belong to the group or community. It is about attaching
or connecting with the group or community.
The idea of equality, inclusion and belonging when it comes to gender and sexual alignment is creating the enabling environment for people of diverse backgrounds and gender identities to participate in workplace, social events, education, leadership and worship. This participation when it becomes active, can lead to society building, recognition of diverse talents, and allyship. Therefore, the idea and implementation of viable gender equality can create supportive and welcoming environment for everyone.
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